Tuesday, 17 January 2012

20 reasons to sleep on the first night.

Reason 3 of 20

“So you won’t be constraint of going home alone”

It could be that going home alone after a great evening in great company makes no difference to you.

After all when you know yourself so well nothing is better than ending the night with a one on one with yourself or your own ego, but one has to admit that it can be frustrating at times going home alone, especially after a wonderful date...that could have lasted until the sun rises.

Opening the door of a flat that seems so cold and empty can be less fun than finding yourself with a guy/girl under the sheets with heat and passion.

Sleeping on the first night does not mean you have to sleep over, but at least you don’t go home alone, because there is the lingering smell of his/her body on you, the fathom sensations of kisses and caresses.

Personally after having sex, on my way home I still feel the touch of that person, with a surge of energy that makes you feel like flying.

So next time you are not sure if you should sleep or not, ask yourself, will I get the same pleasure at my empty flat?

And remember to play safe, cover it up, and use a condom. STDs are serious and takes all the fun out of it.

To be continued....

Friday, 13 January 2012

20 reasons to sleep on the first night.

20 reasons to sleep on the first night.

Reason 2

2-So that you don’t regret it after saying goodnight.

Those who have successfully resisted sleeping on the first night know this feeling all too well. It either we find ourselves alone, saying that it’s a good thing we didn’t fuck on the first night, that this guy/girl is not all that anyway. Or we tell ourselves how thick, imbecile, crap, stupid, idiot we are for letting the chance of sleeping with this guy/girl who seem so nice, looks so fit and in shape, and is suppose to be dynamite in bed, pass us by.

The one thing that I have noticed, people tend to let a lot of simple things in life. Those same things that gives us a reason to wake up in the morning.
Besides isn’t regretting not doing something worse than actually regretting something that we have done? Think about it?

Would you not rather judge yourself on something that you have done or accomplish, instead of asking if what you have not done or accomplish would be great or not? You following thus far?

I think people who live in the moment have more life stories to tell than people who don’t. When I am well aged on my dying bed, I don’t want to look back behind and find that my life was nothing but an empty field. I want to be able to go out with a smile on my face, telling myself that life was a crazy ride, but in the end it was so worth it.

So next time you find yourself with a guy/girl that you want, not sure if you should give in or not, think of this. Are you going to regretting not doing it? If there are any inclinations that you will regret not doing, jump in there, because tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life.
So reason number 2 of 20 reasons to sleep on the first night?

2-so you don’t regret it after saying good night.

To be continued.....

Wednesday, 11 January 2012

20 reasons to sleep on the first night.

Happy new year one and all.
So it’s been a while, but I am back. I’ve twitting and trying to better my cooking blog, trying to get a job to pay off debts, and also trying to enter this course as to take my life in a new direction. So yea lots on my plate, but here I am.

I’ve been bored with my twits latterly so I have decided to twit and blog about something I like. Sex...yes you herd right sex, come people say it with me sex. Sex is not a bad thing you know, in fact it is the healthiest exercise you could ever give your body.

So for the next couple of days I am going to be giving 20 reasons why you should sleep on the first night. And for my straight friends out there and the ladies take knots, the same applies to you.

20 reasons to sleep on the first night.

1-Because you want to.

I’ve met a lot of people who won’t even think of sleeping with someone on the first night, why? Because they don’t want to be considered a slot or easy or whatever other reasons there is. The best I have heard is I won’t until I get married. Bull fucking shit.
If you’re with someone and the feeling is right, then why not? You know the signals, those long glances, bright eyes, devil smile that says I want you now, right here right now. All those things that gets your hormones raging, your heart rate going, you know what I’m talking about those little thing that get you so wet between the legs, makes your loins quiver and get you all hot and wet between the legs. You want to, so why not?
Is it not the most natural thing to listen to one’s body? So why not privilege your desire instead of reason? What a pain in the ass reason can be at times.
So next time you feel like you just want to reap your dates clothes off and have him or her right there right now, ask yourself why not?

Word of warning while you’re having fun always protect yourself, cover it up your health is the only reason you should not.
To be continued......